Shakir Ahmed

Do you want to know when to leave because of stepchild? It’s not easy being a stepparent. You have to face lots of parenting challenges with stepchildren. You don’t have the parents’ natural love and connection to their children that comes with birth, but you still want to be there for your family. But when … Read more

Why won’t my ex accept my follow request? When you break up with someone, it’s hard to move on. You may still be trying to figure out why the relationship ended in the first place. And when you add social media into the mix, things can get really complicated. For example, your ex suddenly appears … Read more

Do you have a laid-back guy in your life that you want to get closer to? If so, this blog post is for you! Here I am going to discuss how to get a laid back guy. But first, I have a story for you from Amelia (my office colleague) “I met Fardin at my … Read more

After a long time, I met Mary, my school friend, at a seminar. She said, “Recently, Bob and I got into a relationship. Last night, my boyfriend said his ex name in his sleep. I asked him about it this morning, and he told me he didn’t know why he said her name. Is my … Read more

My friend William sadly told me, “I neglected her and she left me. It was my fault, and I knew it. I didn’t spend enough time with her, I didn’t pay attention to her needs and took her for granted. Now she’s gone, and I want her back more than anything.” If you’re in a … Read more

“Jessica, my ex removed me as a follower on social media. Do you know why she would do that?” Ramin, one of my friends who I talk to about breakups a lot, told me, “After we broke up, I kept communicating with her and even stalked her on social media. But now, suddenly, she’s cut … Read more

Fabby, one of my social media friends, told me, “Roma and I be friends on social media. After talking for a few days, I learned about her relationship. She has a boyfriend but talks to me everyday. Well, I don’t know why she is talking to me daily. Honestly, I don’t want to be a … Read more

“Girlfriend won’t move in with me.” If you’re in a relationship and your girlfriend won’t move in with you, don’t worry – you’re not alone! Many couples find themselves in this situation. It can be tough to convince your partner to move in with you, but it’s definitely not impossible. In this blog post, I … Read more

“My girlfriend is yelling at me. I don’t know why and how to handle the situation.” My cousin Stalin also said, “It’s been two years. Jara and I are together. I guess she is mad at me and doesn’t want to talk properly. Maybe she is disturbed about something, or my behaviour makes her angry.” … Read more

She contacts me but won’t set dates – many excuse-giving women will contact you first but shirk away from setting up any plan. You may wonder why this is happening and what you can do about it. In this blog post, I will discuss why she might be doing this and ways to convince her … Read more

“He won’t stop pursuing me, even though I am not interested in him. I don’t know why he keeps pursuing me.” Silvi, my colleague, shared her fear. Even though she removed him from social media, he pursued her over other communication methods. She said that her neighbor, Pattison, has been following her everywhere she goes for … Read more

“I like a guy who has a girlfriend. I don’t know whether I am right or wrong.” This is the case with my client Perry Bell who asked me for suggestions. So, do you like a guy who has a girlfriend? If so, there are some things you must consider before making your move. It … Read more

Loren, my cousin, said, “After three years of married life, I found that Kelson (My husband) is not loitering around me as he used to do. He seems to be aloof and distant at all times. I feel my husband doesn’t love me anymore but won’t leave.” It can be a harrowing situation when you … Read more

Rafa, my university batchmate, said, “2 months ago, I married Steve after his ex-wife divorced. I was happy and excited about my married life. However, my excitement is short-lived as I soon realize that my husband’s ex hates me. I’ve tried my best to be cordial and understanding, but no matter what I do or … Read more

“My husband is emotionally attached to another woman,” my cousin Sophia said. “I feel like I’m losing him. Whenever my husband praises another woman, it makes me feel so low. I don’t know how to get him back.” If you’re in a similar situation, it can be heartbreaking. You might be feeling hurt, angry, insecure, … Read more

A week ago, Harry, my client, visited my office and told me, “My wife and I haven’t spoken in a week. We’re both busy with work and the kids, so we didn’t have time to talk. But now it’s been a week, and things are really tense between us. We need to find a way … Read more

My ex texted me after a week of no contact: it’s been a week since I last heard from my ex. I was starting to think that maybe my ex had finally moved on. But then, out of the blue, I received this text. So now what do I do? Are you looking for the … Read more

We know how complicated the situation is for women who claim ‘my child’s father is harassing me.’ If you are a victim of harassment from your child’s father or from a co-parent, there are ways that you can deal with the situation. You don’t have to suffer in silence! This blog post will discuss ten … Read more

“My husband is negative about everything.” Nancy, my neighbor, said, “Jordan Pell is my husband, and we have been married for one year. He has a short temper and trust issues. Also, my husband is always angry and negative about all. Sometimes I find him to be a man of no hope or expectations. I … Read more

“How can I catch my husband cheating?” Iris, one of my friends, told me, “I am doubted my husband Rommie is cheating on me. I can feel it in my gut, and I just want to find out if he is really cheating.” No one wants to think their spouse could be cheating on them, … Read more

When you pour your heart out and get no response, it feels like the world’s weight is crashing down on you. You open up, share your innermost thoughts and feelings, and what do you get in return? A few days ago, my colleague Lucas shared his story at lunchtime,  “Zayla is my school friend. I … Read more

“I met Norah at a birthday party, and we had a great time together. She has a boyfriend but wants to hang out with me. I don’t know why and what I should do now.” My cousin Sam shared his story and sought answers from anyone who would listen. Well, a woman might want to … Read more

If you are a separated couple or were never married or weren’t even in a relationship and the biological father of your unborn baby is not living with you, you may be wondering what the unborn baby’s father’s financial responsibility is during pregnancy. Such costs include medical or childbirth healthcare costs. Here is some information … Read more

Ignoring someone is a sign of showing emotion toward that person. What if that person is your ex? How your ex feels when you ignore him? Well, when you ignore your ex, it can make him feel a range of emotions. Sometimes it makes them sad; sometimes, it makes them angry; and sometimes, it makes … Read more

She broke up with me because I couldn’t commit: is one of the worst feelings in the world. If your girlfriend has dumped you because you couldn’t commit, don’t worry. You can get her back! In this blog post, I will discuss six steps to help you win back your ex-girlfriend’s heart. I’ll also provide … Read more

It’s a situation that no one wants to find themselves in: you discover that your husband fathered child outside marriage. It’s a devastating betrayal that can leave you feeling hurt, angry, and alone. But what do you do next? Should you leave your husband or forgive him? Both options have their own pros and cons, … Read more

“My ex girlfriend is not happy with her new boyfriend.” – many people find themselves in this situation. It can be tough to see your ex-girlfriend being unhappy, especially if you still have feelings for her. “Ruby and I broke up 9 months ago. She moved on quickly and is now dating someone new, but … Read more

Ex husband’s girlfriend causing problems can be difficult to deal with, especially if you have children together. His new girlfriend can cause all sorts of problems in your life – she may try to interfere with your parenting time or even take your kids away from you altogether. No matter her motives, it’s important to … Read more

Can a man forget the woman he loves? Yes, he can forget sometimes. But, if it was his first love, most of the time, he couldn’t forget. It’s a question that has been asked for centuries, but the answer is still unclear. In this blog post, I will explore both sides of this debate and … Read more

Several things can happen if you are dating someone younger than your child. You may be wondering if it is a good idea or not. I am here to help you figure that out. But first, I have a story for you from Samuel. A few days ago, Samuel, my neighbor, met me at the … Read more

Why my ex messaged my best friend? It can be a confusing and painful experience when your ex starts messaging your best friend. You may be wondering why they would do such a thing. There could be any number of reasons, but here are five of the most probable ones. Why does it bother you … Read more

Recently, my ex-colleague Franklin came to my office to discuss his family problem. He started with, “I hate my girlfriend’s son. Want to get rid of this. What can I do?” He further stated,  “I have been dating Susan for the last six months. She has a son from her previous marriage, but he always … Read more

My child hates her dad – It’s never easy when your child hates his/her dad. No matter what the reason is, it can be a difficult situation for the entire family. We have five tips for you if you’re looking for ways to improve things. Isabella, my college junior, came to my office yesterday to … Read more

If you have gone through a breakup, give her space, and she’ll come back. It’s been said that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Well, it turns out that this old adage applies to relationships, too.  She might have a mood swing or other mental condition. Maybe the relationship seems to her a pressure or … Read more

My cousin Rolan suddenly texted me, saying, “My ex seems so happy with her rebound.” Seeing your ex rebound with another person quickly after the breakup can be challenging. Especially if you were still hoping to reconcile, it’s natural to feel a range of emotions like hurt, anger, and jealousy when you see your ex … Read more

How to respond to an ex asking how you are? Undoubtedly, it’s a difficult moment. Should you be cold and distant? Friendly and upbeat? On the one hand, you may want to be polite and cordial. But on the other hand, you may not want anything to do with them anymore. There are many ways … Read more

Boyfriend trying to parent my child – is a widespread case where you have a child and are in relation with another. It can be a complex and confusing situation. You may need to figure out where to turn or what to do. Remember that you are the parent of your child, and you should … Read more

Ex girlfriend contacting new girlfriend? It can be a confusing and challenging time when your ex-girlfriend starts contacting your new girlfriend. This usually happens when the ex-girlfriend is not over the breakup yet and tries to get back at you by hurting your new relationship. There are several reasons why this might happen, but there … Read more

Last year, Erin, my cousin, married Mr. Adam, knowing about his son with his ex-wife. 2 days back, she met my office and told me, “My step child is driving me crazy. He is not listening to me and always triggers me. Now, I don’t know how to deal with it.” Well, it’s no secret … Read more

I resent my boyfriend’s daughter, and I want to stop it. Sound familiar? If you’re finding yourself feeling this way, you’re not alone. My cousin Simi met me and shared her story: “My boyfriend’s daughter Sarina didn’t like me from the beginning. I tried to be nice to her, but she would give me dirty … Read more

What does it mean when your ex ask if you’re seeing anyone? A recent study published in the journal “Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin” found that when an ex-partner asks if you’re dating anyone, they’re trying to determine 12 different things about your life. While it’s usually seen as a benign question, this study shows … Read more

John, my friend, told me, “I have been in a relationship with Eve for two years. In the beginning, I was madly in love with her, and I used to miss her whenever we were apart. But lately, my feelings have changed, and I don’t miss my girlfriend as much when we are apart. This … Read more

Are you in a situation where you are bound to say, “I don’t trust my child’s father“? If you don’t trust your child’s father, it can be a difficult decision on what to do next. You might be worried about maintaining co-parenting with him. You need to protect your child, and yourself, from harm. In … Read more

It’s been weeks, maybe even months, since you and your ex parted ways. And in that time, they’ve made no effort to return the belongings you left behind. It starts bothering you if you need to figure out why ex delaying giving stuff back. Unfortunately, Nebula, one of my friends who I used to go … Read more

My friend Romeo said, “Ramika and I separated around three years ago. During this whole period, she never asked for her things. But now my ex wants her things back. I don’t know what to do and how to give all those things to her. I lost some of the items already, and some of … Read more

Recently, I had a situation where my neighbor complaining about child noise outside. At first point, I didn’t know what to do! No one wants to be the neighbor that everyone hates. I also don’t want. Instead of panicking, I followed the six steps below to resolve the issue. If your neighbor constantly complains about … Read more

“Why ignoring your ex is powerful” might seem harsh, but it holds a lot of truth regarding healing and moving on from a breakup. This isn’t about playing games or trying to hurt someone; it’s about self-care, setting boundaries, and maintaining a sense of self-identity outside of a past relationship. Well, after a breakup, you’re … Read more

It can be puzzling when someone who was once warm and friendly suddenly becomes cold and distant. You might ask yourself, “Why is she suddenly giving me the cold shoulder?” What did I do wrong? The answer, unfortunately, is usually not easy to come by. In this blog post, I will explore 11 possible reasons … Read more

‘My wife left me but I still love her‘ is a very emotional stage. If your wife has left you, it can feel like the world is ending. You may be wondering how to get your wife back. It can be a shocking and traumatic experience that leaves you feeling lost and alone. Don’t despair. … Read more

When a woman stops talking to a man, it can be for several reasons. Sometimes, it’s easy to figure out the problem, and other times it’s not so clear. This post will look at ten practical reasons why a woman might stop talking to a man. Remember that this list is not exhaustive but should … Read more

“My ex didn’t answer my call. I don’t know why my ex is ignoring my phone calls. I sent her a lot of messages. However, my ex reads my messages but doesn’t reply. My ex ignores me but doesn’t block me. It was an emergency for me to contact her. Last, I visited her at … Read more

My boyfriend’s daughter is ruining our relationship is a difficult situation for you and your partner. This post will discuss ten ways to deal with the situation and salvage your relationship. Always communication is vital in these types of situations. Talk to your partner about how you’re feeling and try to devise a solution that … Read more

How does an alpha male pursue a woman? This intriguing question has been asked by many, and in this post, I aim to delve into the secrets behind the art of attraction from the alpha male’s perspective. Imagine you’re at a crowded social event and spot a man who effortlessly commands the room’s attention. His … Read more

It was natural to wonder what to do for Jessica, who expressed, “My Boyfriend Cheated and Had a Baby with Another Woman“. It is normal to feel a range of emotions in this situation, including anger, betrayal, and sadness. You may feel like giving up or think it is impossible to move on. We are … Read more

Jasica, my neighbor, said, “My husband always tries to control me. He is always telling me how to do things, how I should act, or how to dress. He doesn’t consider my opinion and can get angry if I don’t obey his orders. Now I want to know how to handle a controlling husband.” You’re … Read more

Rummy, my friend, said to me, “My husband spends too much money. Things are being so hard for us. So, I want to know how to stop his spending.” It’s more than annoying when your husband overspends, and you’re left to scramble for money. You might feel like all you do is criticize him or … Read more

David, my colleague, said to me, “I love my girlfriend so much. But recently, I caught my girlfriend checking out another guy. What should I do now?” It can be excruciating to catch your partner looking at someone else, and you may feel like everything is falling apart. In this blog post, I will advise … Read more

When wives disrespect their husbands, it can lead to all sorts of problems in the marriage. Sometimes, a wife may not even be aware of when she is being disrespectful to her husband, but it can still lead to serious issues in the relationship. It’s a common issue that many wives face, often unknowingly. Throughout … Read more

Jenifer Decosta, my neighbor, said, “Leaving my husband was a mistake. I thought that leaving him would make me happier and have a better life. But now, eight months later, I realize I should never have left my husband.” You may feel like you need to leave your husband for several reasons, such as an … Read more

My batchmate Lara said, “My husband stays out late and doesn’t call. That’s why I’m afraid my husband is cheating on me. I don’t know what he’s doing or where he is. I don’t know how to fix this.” If your husband stays out late and doesn’t call, you may feel a range of emotions … Read more

“Dismissive avoidant keeps coming back, but why?” Dismissive-avoidant attachment describes an individual who actively works to limit or prevent feelings of closeness with others. If you have a dismissive avoidant attachment, you may not seek out romantic relationships and may even work to avoid them. Now, such behavior is often perplexing to those on the … Read more

My neighbor Lara said, “Mac and I were together for three months. But I walked away because he wouldn’t commit. Am I right?” A man needs to step up and commit to his partner regarding relationships. He should take the lead and be decisive about their feelings for a woman. If he can’t do that, … Read more

Amilia, my friend, shared her sad story, “My husband doesn’t value me, my opinions, my contributions, my feelings, or my emotions. He is always criticizing me and belittling my accomplishments. How to make my husband value me.” Well, it is a tough time, and it is heartbreaking to know that you are not valued in … Read more

My old classmate Lamina Kartose confided in me at our campus reunion party about her struggles. She said: “My husband records me when we fight. I feel I have no privacy with him always listening and judging me. He plays back the recordings to try and make a point, but it only makes me even … Read more

“It has been six months since Rubi and I got separated. Still, we are connected on social media. But I have a question here. Why hasn’t my ex unfollowed me yet?” Terence, my business partner, asked me. Well, if you’re wondering why your ex hasn’t unfollowed you on social media, there are a few possible … Read more

You’ve met a girl you’re interested in and want to take things to the next level. But she wants to be friends first. You think she might be the one for you, but she’s not ready for a relationship yet. If you want to take your relationship to the next level, you need to make … Read more

When a married man wants a child with you, there are 12 risks that you need to be aware of. By understanding these risks, you can protect yourself from being taken advantage of in a vulnerable situation. These risks include everything from financial instability to emotional heartbreak. Considering having a child with a married man, … Read more

Ex upset I don’t want to be friends – This is the case when your ex asks to be friends after the breakup, but you don’t want to. It’s natural to feel this way, and there are many good reasons why you shouldn’t be friends with your ex. However, saying no may make them upset … Read more

The girlfriend of David, my business partner, suddenly stopped communicating with him. David texted me, “what to do when she goes cold?” He further said, “Alisha and I have been in a relationship for almost a year. But recently, I noticed that she is not excited about our relationship. She stays outside for a long. I … Read more

Last month I met my college friend Susan after a long time, and she told me about her problem with her mother-in-law: “My husband won’t set boundaries with his mother.” Susan further said: “My mother-in-law always tries to interfere in our decision-making, and when my husband resists her, she starts crying or becomes very emotional, … Read more

If you question why you should not chase women, this blog post will address your inquiry. Chasing an individual who does not reciprocate interest is a fruitless endeavor that wastes time and energy; it can also result in emotional pain and frustration. What’s more, it may lead to committing a bigger crime. In total, 12 … Read more

Michele, my friend, was talking to me yesterday. He expressed his sad feelings by saying, “My girlfriend doesn’t miss me.” it’s tough when your girlfriend doesn’t seem to miss you. You’re unsure what you did wrong, but she seems perfectly happy without you. He expressed more: “Tushi is my girlfriend. We have been in a relationship … Read more

It’s the holiday season again, and for many people, that means spending time with family. But what if your family is a little different than most? What if your ex-wife is still in the picture? Some people might say that spending holidays with an ex-wife is a bad idea, while others might say that it’s … Read more

If you are wondering how to deal with a cheating narcissist husband, know that you are not alone. This is one of the most difficult things anyone can go through. If you are currently dealing with this situation, you understand how painful and frustrating it can be. The good news is that there are ways … Read more

My cousin Katty said, “I don’t know why my husband doesn’t help me with anything. Maybe he’s too busy, he doesn’t understand my needs, or I’m not asking the right way. Whatever the reason is, I want to make him helpful towards me.” Now, if you are in the same condition as Katty, don’t worry … Read more

When your ex doesn’t want to be friends anymore, it can feel like a massive punch in the gut. Suddenly, the person who meant so much to you is gone and doesn’t want anything to do with you. What could have possibly happened? Why did things go so wrong? There are many reasons why an … Read more

Six months ago, my friend James got separated. Recently he told me, “My ex says she misses me, but I don’t know why. Now, what should I do?” If you find yourself in a similar predicament as James, it can be tough to figure out the next steps. On the one hand, it might feel … Read more

My client Patricia told me, “Saren and I broke up around a year ago. We were together for two years; during that time, he had left much of his stuff at my place. Now I’m wondering why hasn’t my ex asked for his stuff back. I’ve gone through all the possibilities and can’t find a … Read more

“Why is my ex so cold and heartless now,” my friend Trever asked me. “We were together for two months, but we broke up about two months ago. I tried to keep a good relationship with her after the breakup, but she doesn’t seem interested.” Well, it’s hard to understand why an ex who used … Read more

“Our relationship ended nearly a month ago, and since then, I’ve realised that I still love her. Unfortunately, it seems like my ex girlfriend doesn’t love me anymore. I want her back but don’t know how.” Kelson, my batch-mate, shared this story. Now, if your condition is like Kelson, and if your girlfriend decides she … Read more

Nolan, my cousin last week came to my home. He said to me, “My wife wants to separate. It’s almost five years that we’ve been together, and I really don’t want to give up. I know that many people say it’s better to let go, but I just can’t. So, how can I change my … Read more

You can’t ignore your child’s biological father entirely because they also have rights to the child. You may ask yourself, “What are the effects of ignoring the father of my child?” or “Is ignoring the father of my child a good idea?” The father should automatically be in the picture when a child is born. … Read more

Girlfriend isolating son from family – is a widespread issue in most families. It can be a difficult situation to deal with. Because of this issue, your child may be distancing themselves from you and the rest of their family. Three months ago, my colleague’s son Rickson took a college trip and fell in love … Read more

My college friend Sarin met me at the park and told me, “Last week, I broke up with him and he didn’t chase me. It was a relationship of more than 5 years. I thought he was so mad at me. I wanted him to come after me and try to get me back, but … Read more

Lucus, my friend, met me at my office and told me, “I dumped my girlfriend because her past. She had a history of drug use and relationship issues, and I couldn’t handle it anymore. But now that the dust has settled, how do I move on? If you are in a similar situation to Lucas … Read more

If you find yourself in a situation where “my ex won’t let me go after a breakup,” you know it can be challenging. They might constantly call, text, or even show up at your house. You want to move forward with your life, but they’re stopping you! My ex-colleague Oliver recently emailed me about her … Read more

Max, my friend shared his story with me. He said, “My ex hasn’t contacted me in 6 months. I’ve tried reaching out to her via call and text, but she never responds. We separated 8 months ago due to some disagreements, but in the first 2 months after the split, she would still talk to … Read more

Do you ever wonder, “why does he text me when he has a girlfriend?” You’re not alone! Many women find themselves in this situation and often wonder what’s happening. “Ricky is my ex. We broke up around five months ago. Last week I learned he has been in a new relationship for a couple of … Read more

I was surprised when my colleague Jackson told me, “my ex is with someone else but still contacts me.” It’s tough when your ex starts dating someone else but still contacts you. You may wonder why they are doing this and what you should do about it. Well, here have a reference for you. My … Read more

“Last year, at a party, I met Jenelia and was attracted to her at first glance. For a long time, we dated but now she just wants to be friends. I don’t know what just happened and why she is doing so.” This is a condition that my colleague Harry faces. If you want to … Read more

Last week, my client Jenia told me, “Liam is my ex-husband. it’s around 7 months since we broke up but still act like a couple. That is because of 2 years old son. We don’t think that he can bear the separation. We have to act like we are a couple in front of him. … Read more

Bob, my school friend, recently texted me, “I miss her but she doesn’t care. I don’t know why she is doing so.” It’s a pathetic matter to talk about, but I can relate to it since I, too, miss her the same way. Bob further explained: “It’s been 6 months since I’ve seen Naina.  But … Read more

Does silence make a woman miss you? Yes,  it can. When you do something special for her or just spend quality time with her, it can make her think of you even when you’re apart. But if you want to make a woman miss you more, other things will help too. My colleague Renison called … Read more

When a guy asks did you miss me, it can be hard to know how to respond. Sometimes, it can seem like he’s fishing for compliments. Other times, he might really be missing you and want to hear that you did too. In this article, I will explore nine different reasons and times why a … Read more

My ex girlfriend threatening to ruin my life is a nightmare situation for a man who just broke up a relationship. If your ex-girlfriend is threatening in such a way, you need to take action fast. These threats can be very damaging and may be difficult to recover from. In this post, we will discuss 15 … Read more

Breaking up with an alpha female can be one of the most challenging things you will ever have to do. These women are used to getting their way and aren’t afraid to use their power to get it. They can be demanding, controlling, and frequently quite ruthless. If this situation applies to you, don’t fret … Read more

Just imagine the situation of poor Shila, my ex-colleague who is seven months pregnant, but she was crying and saying, “my boyfriend left me pregnant for another woman.” If you have just found out that your boyfriend or husband has left you pregnant for another woman, you are likely feeling a range of emotions – … Read more

Every woman’s worst nightmare is if her husband’s ex wife wants him back. It can be challenging for the current wife, no matter how bad the break-up was or how much time passed. If your husband’s narcissistic ex-wife is coming back into the picture, it’s important to handle things correctly. This post will discuss ten tips … Read more

I saw the disordered mental situation when someone said, ‘my wife left me for another man.’ I know you’re hurting right now and feel like giving up. You may even think there’s no point in living anymore. But I want to let you know that life can go on. You can do many things if … Read more